I am “child free” for 6 whole days? I AM CHILD FREE FOR 6 WHOLE DAYS!!!!!!
Yes it’s true and to be honest I have mixed feelings about it. On the one hand I am 100% free to do whatever during the day without school schedules, doctors appointments, homework, softball, baseball, etc. On the other hand…no good morning hugs and kisses or night time snuggles.
Where are they you ask? Well the pictures above are from a quick food stop on the way to the airport hotel 2 nights ago. They left super early the next morning (with their grandparents, Monie and G) to fly to Florida before going on their first Disney Cruise! To say they were excited is an understatement!
In their absence so far I’ve gone to breakfast with a friend and her daughter, gotten my haircut, gone shopping, wrote a new badge packet for my group Empowered Yayas , finished a book I was reading and shopped with my dear friend to donate to charity. All the while I was doing these things I was anxious to know how my Bugs were doing. (They’ve texted: They had fun swimming yesterday and today the boarded the ship and rode the water slide!)
I’ve big plans for the next few days…don’t worry I’ll post all about my Mommy Adventure. What would YOU do with a free days to yourself?
Geocaching….Who knew it would be so much fun?!? Our good friend JH introduced us to geocaching last year. He is really into it and has gone many times. Last year his family and ours went geocaching together. We really had fun and talked about doing it more…but didn’t. This year I decided that it was something I really wanted to do with The Bugs.
We went the first time last week with friends…Bug’s best friend and his sister and Mom. We went to the same place we went last year – alvernia park. Our phone app wasn’t working right…probably user failure! Yesterday we went again to Rustic Park armed with an upgraded geocaching app PLUS my new garmin handheld gps…late birthday present from J. It is SO COOL…now that I know how to use it! LOL I hadn’t uploaded the Rustic Park caches to it so I entered the cache coordinates instead which worked out great! We searched for 3 caches and found 2. We had so much fun! LoveBug named our “team” the Crushers…fine for yesterday but we need a new team name. Any suggestions? I’m ordering fun tokens to leave in our found caches…trying to decide between wooden discs or stones. Now if I can just think of a cool name….
GEOCACHE FOUND!!! (SM, GM, LoveBug and Bug)
I’ve always said that if it wasn’t for bad luck I would have no luck at all. Unfortunately we seem to have mixed luck today…St. Patricks Day. It’s never been a big holiday for me…I mean I’m not Irish! Although if you ask LoveBug she “totally is!” When I was teaching it was a fun but exhausting day…leprechaun visits, secret notes from the leprechaun, rainbow colored treats, green milk…you know – the usual.
Normally the day passes without much effort on my part. My father in law (who is absolutely Irish) has convinced the Bugs that they are IRISH. They embrace the day completely! My FIL and not to be left out mother in law always supply the Bugs with festive shirts, shamrock tattoos, beads, etc. This year was no exception!
Unfortunately today Bug is home sick with Strep (bad luck)…bleh! He’s still wearing his Awesome Irish shirt and he even wore his leprechaun sunglasses…that pot of gold is BRIGHT you know! That’s as far as his celebration went today although I’m sure he’ll perk up when his Pop (my fil) and Grammy (mil) get here for dinner. Yep this year I’m in charge of the dinner: corned beef and cabbage, parsley potatoes, etc. There seemed to be mixed information about having carrots or no carrots. Something about the color orange and Irish catholics?!? I’m not either one so not totally sure about that one. Not everyone likes corned beef so I also made a sweet/spicy pork loin roast. I did my research and good Lord I HOPE I did it all correctly! I’m not sure what the dessert is supposed to be but I went to green: green pistachio gelato.
Good Luck: Loving family to share the night with!
My Bug turned 7 today. His blue eyes, quick smile and kind spirit warm my heart daily. He is 100% all boy – active, dirty, gross… but he is also the most thoughtful and loving spirit. I can’t believe he is 7 years old! 1st grade! He is growing into such a nice boy. He treats his friends like gold, spreads his kindness to everyone around him and still remembers to hug & kiss his momma ❤
We celebrated his birthday like we do all birthdays in our family: favorite dinner with everyone in the family. Bug of course chose TACOS and entertained us all with his stories. J surprised Bug with Star Wars Legos…and the promise to watch the movies. Score big points for Daddy! I found captain America tank and briefs…with a mask! How could I NOT buy that costume for the Bug? I think my find was a hit too…What do you think?
His best friend is G…not his grandfather but another 1st grader! 🙂 If he doesn’t have a playdate with G every couple days he totally goes into withdrawal. G introduced Bug to MineCraft and the song “What does the fox say.” They play games, run around, yell and carry on together…and it’s wonder*full!
Of course he wanted to celebrate his birthday with G. He chose to also ask his friend Q to play at a local fun spot: Ballocity. Because he is so sweet he included his sister and G’s sister too. They had so much fun running and playing for a couple hours, eating pizza and cupcakes. Super Fun for a Super Kid!
Music is a big part of life at our house. We listen to music in the car, in the kitchen… both of the Bugs love to sing, play instruments and dance. One of my favorite things to do is listen to my Bugs singing…makes my heart smile ❤
Music can say so much about how you’re feeling…so for today I’d like to share my playlist for my week… What songs would be on YOUR playlist? Share them with me…I love to hear from you!
Happy…by Pharrell Williams (I LOVE this song! I challenged my YaYas to make their own Happy video.
What Does the Kid Say (This could almost be my theme song…or most mom’s theme song for that matter!)
The Mom Song
ENJOY!!!!! Please share your songs 🙂
It’s hard to believe that 10 years ago our LoveBug came into this world so uncertainly. I remember that day so vividly. It started with rushing, pain, worry, fear… I remember not being able to stop shaking as they took me in the delivery room, absolutely terrified to be alone even if just for a few minutes. I don’t remember much from that day. I remember being relieved to hear her cry (we were told she wouldn’t cry) and I remember J holding my hand. I remember not being able to stop shaking for quite a while afterwards. What I remember clearly is the doctor coming to talk with J and me about LoveBug not being able to breathe on her own, or on the respirator and needing to put her on ECMO. I remember the nurse “buying” us time for me to get in the wheelchair and go to the NICU to see her…just in case…and for the next 10 weeks I spent every moment giving 100% of myself to her. From day 1 she has touched my life, everyone’s lives, with her amazing heart. Her unbelievable spunk and sass is the reason she is here and even in those most challenging parenting moments I wouldn’t have her change a single thing ❤
Now, she is double digits (something she enjoys telling us at every opportunity!) and she is growing up into such an amazing and special young lady. She warms my heart every day and continues to make me smile. She is smart, determined, clever, funny, kind, compassionate, energized and spectacular. I am so incredibly proud of the person she is becoming…even if the process comes with a few headaches 🙂 My love for her is never ending, unconditional and I will celebrate her every day!
This year we certainly celebrated in style. She chose 3 of her closest friends…they were pampered at Sweet & Sassy, rode in a pink limo, ate pizza, were glamourized before a photo shoot at home and ate amazing cupcakes from Kupkake Kouture. Turning 10 was never so much fun!